I hate when people say parenting is hard. Parenting is not hard. When you love your baby/ies as much as a parent should it isn’t hard. But it is fully setting your needs aside. When I am starving I make sure I feed khalia first, when it’s time for me to do my hair I do my daughters first. I complete all her needs first before my own. Being a parent is not for the selfish.
I never had a “boys are icky and gross” phase I’ve literally been chasing dick since birth